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THE EMOTIONAL CLEARING PROCESS / Re: taking responsibility
« on: March 17, 2020 »
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THE EMOTIONAL CLEARING PROCESS / taking responsibility
« on: March 15, 2020 »
Hi John,
In Emotional Clearing you write „It can be assumed that major difficulties we undergo with another are due to incomplete exchanges with that same person in a previous life.” Can we thus assume that if we haven’t resolved certain issues with another person, we will meet them in the next life? Should we thus aim to resolve these issues in this life or just let things be?
I had a situation which led me and my partner to part ways (we never officially split up, there was never a conversation which would give any of us closure, my partner basically ghosted me after I left) and despite the fact that for months after the incident which led me to leave I was certain everything was his fault, thanks to intense self-work I experienced an awakening and took full responsibility for the situation and my feelings, I brought myself out of victimhood and any other negative feelings. Before I got to where I am now, I did send him a text message telling him his lack of any contact hurt me. Now I am extremely grateful to him as he was the mirror that helped me awaken and therefore change my life. I know I can’t help him change or awaken, but I wonder whether it is worth telling him (even after 7 months!) that my life has changed for the better thanks to him. During meditation, I send him positive intentions, energy and love everyday as I believe this message will be communicated to him via the universe. But do you think communicating this message in person is important for his emotional clearing? Should I organize such a meeting one day or simply wait for a “coincidental” meeting?
Thank you for your thoughts.
In Emotional Clearing you write „It can be assumed that major difficulties we undergo with another are due to incomplete exchanges with that same person in a previous life.” Can we thus assume that if we haven’t resolved certain issues with another person, we will meet them in the next life? Should we thus aim to resolve these issues in this life or just let things be?
I had a situation which led me and my partner to part ways (we never officially split up, there was never a conversation which would give any of us closure, my partner basically ghosted me after I left) and despite the fact that for months after the incident which led me to leave I was certain everything was his fault, thanks to intense self-work I experienced an awakening and took full responsibility for the situation and my feelings, I brought myself out of victimhood and any other negative feelings. Before I got to where I am now, I did send him a text message telling him his lack of any contact hurt me. Now I am extremely grateful to him as he was the mirror that helped me awaken and therefore change my life. I know I can’t help him change or awaken, but I wonder whether it is worth telling him (even after 7 months!) that my life has changed for the better thanks to him. During meditation, I send him positive intentions, energy and love everyday as I believe this message will be communicated to him via the universe. But do you think communicating this message in person is important for his emotional clearing? Should I organize such a meeting one day or simply wait for a “coincidental” meeting?
Thank you for your thoughts.
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